Do you want that special lady in your life to feel special about your relationship? Trust me when I tell you that small things mean a lot. Over time, it’s easy to forget the little things that contribute so much to a happy and fulfilling relationship.
From time to time, it’s a good idea to look closely at the way we treat our partner and make sure that our actions accurately convey our true feelings about her and how much we value the relationship. Here’s a list of 65 things that should never be overlooked in a relationship. If you think I’m wrong, just ask her!
1. Regularly express to her that you need and value her. 2. Do things that make you laugh together.
3. Compliment her for her special qualities and be specific.
4. Put your arms around her when she needs comfort.
5. Speak respectfully, don’t demean her or hurt her feelings.
6. Give her time to be with her friends. 7. Take regular walks hand-in-hand. 8. Be enthusiastic over things that she’s excited about. 9. Do something you think she wants done before she asks.
10. Discuss changes with her first before you make them.
11. Show interest in the relationship and the things she values. 12. Allow her to teach you things without being defensive. 13. Let go of the small stuff. 14. Be a good listener and value what she says.
15. Get away from the routine to spend time together.
16. Go shopping with her without watching the clock. 17. Make her breakfast and clean up afterward.
18. Set specific relationship goals to achieve together.
19. Act like you are partners in all areas life.
20. Don’t take her for granted, always be polite.
21. Admit your mistakes, and ask for forgiveness. 22. Defend her to others, especially to your family. 23. Don’t belittle her intelligence. 24. Scratch her back, rub her feet, and massage her neck.
25. Be especially helpful when she is not feeling well.
26. When she asks how your day went, give her details.
27. Never argue over money, it will damage your relationship.
28. Don’t embarrass her in front of others. 29. Make eye contact when the two of you are talking.
30. Show that you prefer her company over all others.
31. Give her your full attention whenever possible. 32. When she expresses her feelings listen with your heart. 33. Never flirt with another woman. 34. Brag about her and your relationship to others.
35. Surprise her with a card and flowers.
36. Call her when you know you are going to be late. 37. Give her your undivided attention at least once a day. 38. Never compare her unfavorably with others. 39. Take care of yourself, It shows you care.
40. Be supportive. Help her to achieve her goals.
41. Run errands without complaining. 42. Sit close to her, even when you’re just watching TV. 43. Include her when you make plans. 44. Do things that make her feel cherished as a woman.
45. Build trust into your relationship.
46. Surprise her with a 15+ second kiss. 47. Stay in good of shape so she’s proud to be with you. 48. Be kinder to her than you are to strangers.
49. Make sure she feels valued above everyone else.
50. Continue to court her and date her. 51. Show affection for her in front of friends. 52. Hold her close when she is hurt or discouraged.
53. Surprise her with an unexpected gift.
54. Don’t forget to hold her hand in public.
55. Honor her and support her dignity.
56. Don’t dishonor her by eyeballing other women. 57. Fix dinner for her sometimes. 58. Be sympathetic when she’s feeling down. 59. Don’t ignore the small things that bother her.
60. Do things around the house that she wants done.
61. Tell her and show her that you love her every day. 62. When you’re away call or email often. 63. Show her affection without sexual intentions. 64. Show her affection with sexual intentions.
65. Let her see you reading and applying this list.
A few important points to keep in mind
This is not a list of rules and the purpose of this list in not to encourage a one-sided relationship. These are only suggestions for those who truly want to make the lady in their life feel special, but don’t really understand how to accomplish that.
Because a rich and rewarding relationship is a two way street, it’s advantageous if both participants have some understanding of what it takes to satisfy the needs of their partner. That’s why I also wrote 67 Ways to Make Him Feel Super Respected and Get Him to Treat You with More Love and Respect. You see, very often partners want to meet their mates needs but don’t have a clue how life looks from the other persons viewpoint. The purpose of these articles is simply to provide a little insight and perspective into the Mars, Venus syndrome, and to build some appreciation for our somewhat mysterious gender specific differences.
